A Call for Compassion: Understanding Wouter Goes’ Behavior

Wouter Goes has faced criticism multiple times due to his striking behavior during matches. The defender is known for his aggressive demeanor towards opponents. Writer Nico Dijkshoorn attempts to delve into the mindset of Goes.

In his column for Voetbal International, Dijkshoorn expresses that Goes begins his day in a state of anger. “It’s the fault of your pillow and, quite frankly, your bed that you didn’t sleep well. You wake up furious, brewing coffee while shouting at the machine for efficiency, then spend an hour angrily scrolling through your phone, and finally, you head to training in a bad mood.”

Dijkshoorn believes that Goes simply needs a more positive approach. “Security, that’s the key word. I think we should support Wouter in his quest for understanding. The Eredivisie could certainly use more sensitivity and warmth. Right now, with Wouter Goes as a glaring example, we are too focused on his anger and his unfortunate antics. We should overwhelm him with love—possibly even physical affection. That’s what he seems to be searching for. Hands on skin. Hence, this plea to Wouter Goes’ next opponent.”